Violent temper..Bi Polar?

I have always had a short fused temper even as a teen. Since I hit my early twenties though and met my husband it got worse. I have overreacted and distrusted, thrown temper tantrums and yelled,hit. I have had anxiety/ocd for years but this anger problem makes me worry about conditions like "Bi Polar or Borderline". I don't have any symptoms of bi polar (manias, depression, etc.) I have no history of bi polar in my family, I have never taken many drugs, I drink next to nothing, NO history of self harm (such as those with borderline exhibit), no severe emptiness. I don't go off on anyone else really at all. I'm actually mild mannered around friends, others, etc. But my temper has been volatile and out of control at times towards the spouse. And he didn't deserve it. My mom is tempered also but by no means a "bipolar". Of course my temper has decreased by a landslide now after fearing this for the last couple months.