Thursday, July 21, 2011

Which of these bikinis will look best on me? My pic included.?

I would go with the leopard top and bottom, it looks really nice and i bet you would look good in leopard print! :)

I am very scared......plz help?

we live in the middle of the woods. We have a few neighbors, but not like normal neighbors, they are separated by the forest area. Well I just heard the neighbors shoot.....twice. They NEVER shoot. The only animal I have is a tiny **** zu, lol.Am RIGHT I mean like sitting under the window watching for someone. My mom is sleeping across the room. I refuse to wake her up unless it's an emergency. The porch lights are on, but it's pitch black in here. It's almost 2:00 am. I am scared that they were shooting at something bad, like a robber. I am 11. HELP!

If you saw a parent slap their 5-year-old in public, how would you react?

Suppose the 5-year-old was throwing a tantrum, the mom ordered the kid to be quiet, the kid doesn't, and then the mom slaps the kid across the face?

What's this Pisces guys issue?

You did kind of react a bit nastily and that is childish but it happens when we're hurt. Let him cool off and stop contacting him for now. Don't message him unless he messages you first and then be cool and don't beg his forgiveness. He needs to see that you can be grown up about this too. The more you message him the further away you will push him so let him calm down.

Autism spectrum disorder?

My son is 3.5 and still yet to be tested but started seeing the signs after he gave me the heart attack of a lifetime. He was drawn to fans, obsessed with colors, letters and numbers, lining up cars and disinterested in most his other toys. The scary signs were his absolute fearlessness (with exceptions to noises) and always drawn to water, and self abusive when upset. I have a cousin who was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome (in the autism spectrum) and was able to see the similarities as well. All in all it never hurts to get tested (in my case cause he's high functioning) be persistent and make your concerns heard.

Emergency Kittens 2 days old?

Oky so around 11 pm we found 2 kittens on our deck we brought a bed out for them and their mom bt their mom left and hsnt came back.they are hungy they are a few days old eyes are closed. What should i do! No place is open at 2:30 am

Please, is there any way I can save my cat?

He's such a strong boy! He's been through so much and we have to put him down in atleast a week. He has asthma, hiv, and heart disease. I took him into the emergency room and they said it's probably worse. They said he probably has a bacterial infection or something they can't pick up. They said it would be torture to keep him alive any longer because his lungs will get too constricted. I've been giving him medicine every day and he seemed worse before, but today he seems fine. It seems a bit hard for him to breathe but he's active, eating, playing, responding to my touches, drinking, gets excited.. Before he developed all of this the vets always said he's the healthiest 12 year old cat they'd ever seen. I don't understand why this is happening to him. My world feels like it will be nothing without him. I love him so much and I don't want him to go. He's my best friend and my child. My dad suggested getting another cat but i'll never want another animal again. I love him. Is there any procedure or medicine I can give? The doctors said I have the strongest medicine for an animal. He would be fine, but because he has a type of aids, it prevents medicine from working... so medicine barely works for him. God, I need him to get better. Is there a chance he can survive?

EMERGENCY - My Iguana is choking?

My iguana ate a stem from his collard greens and now I believe it is lodged in his throat. He is breathing but I can see it when he opens his mouth. I've called the emergency vet and they said we can either monitor him at home or bring him in but the vet is 45 min. away. I don't know what to do. At first he was a bit frantic and then he fell from his shelf (I caught him before he hit) but not he's seems calmer. I'm so scared. Do you think it's caught in his lungs at all? Should I take him to the vet?

Could I have ovarian cancer and not know?

I am almost 19 years old and I have had bad bladder infections and pain in my pelvis for about 4 months now and I kept telling to doctor and they didn't see anything abnormal in my urine so they kept telling me that it was just a bladder infection and "rib cage pain". So, about a month and a half ago I had pain so immensely bad in my right side of my pelvis and when I would have a bowel movement it was ten times worse. I went to the Emergency Room and they did a vaginal ultrasound and found "multiple ovarian cysts" on my right ovary and they were hemorragic cysts. So, I've just been dealing with the pain. But, recently I've been having pain on my right leg from my pelvis down to my knee and I'm feeling full quickly after a snack along with bloating all throughout my days. Could I have symptoms of ovarian cancer and not know it? Would the doctors be able to tell?

I have an idea,maybe it will work?

Your briefs will have to come off, but no worries. The nurse or administering physician will ensure that your butt and bits are not exposed. They are really very careful about that sort of thing.

What to do with psycho 3 yr old?

My aunt takes care of me (13) my younger brother (7) and her daughter (14 months) and our PSYCHO COUSIN i have no idea what to do with her if my little bro tries playing with something she goes and bothers him and constantly shouts screams and often throws tantrums and has hits all of us at LEAST 15 times a day my aunt is a complete and total pushover and often makes things worse by giving in after a so called "punishment" my aunt will "spank" her and she will often laugh after. my aunt takes her out of time out early and like i said will give her whatever she wants afterwards im SICK and TIRED of her screaming and my aunts pushovery ness i want a strong discipline tool or trick from any one PLEASE HELP

What should i do when my 4 year old daughter does not listen to me and just says no to everything?

I got a 10 year old son, 6 year old daughter, and a 4 year old daughter. My son and my older daughter listen to me and my Husband all the time. When my 4 year old throws a tantrum we put her in time out on the bottom of the stairs. it helps for maybe an hour and she just be bad again. I need some advice on how to disipline my daughter?

My son grabs my finger & trys to lead me around the house all day?

My 22 month old has been doing this for about the past 2 weeks. Regardless if I'm sitting down watching t.v. or I'm cleaning he will come up to me, grab my finger & lead me to where he wants to go. Most of the time it's to his room & he just stands there lol I play with him ALL the time so I know that's not the problem. But if I don't get up & follow him he will go OFF & throw a tantrum each time. Should I just ignore him?

Can anyone advise me on my Dark Deck Please?

i would go heavy on the magic and traps than monsters. maybe 15 good monsters and the rest split with magic and traps. if you have the right ones that compliment your monsters, winning is a breeze. also get the cards like princess of tsurugi that do 500 damage per card in oponents magic zone. princess of tsurugi and just desserts in one turn can do 3000-5000 damage on life points easy.

My 3-year old has tantrums because she is tired yet won't sleep! HELP!?

She has a consistent schedule and routine yet won't sleep. She will play in her bed until 9:00 or later; then wake up tired. Same at naptime. I don't want to drug her but music and back rubs don't work.

Single mum with a 21 month old daughter. is she hitting milestones?

My daughter and I have been alone together since she was 6 months old. She has been checked out by doctors and is hitting her milestones physicaly. I'm starting to worry now that her development with speaking and listening and following simple comands aren't what they should be. I work part time whilst she goes to nursery, and hoped that would help. She still doesn't say mum, ta, yes or no. infact the only words she does say is "dat" (whats that?) missy (our cat) woof woof (for dog). she also makes the sounds for counting 1 to 10. I'm worried I should be doing more to help her development but with no family support I have no way of asking others advice. She is also throwing BIG temper tantrums which is hard to bare so i put her in her room until she calms down. is that right? she still naps during the day but only when i put her in her cot otherwise she screams because she's so tired. Please help???

What time of the day are scheduled C sections generally performed?

If a woman is scheduled to undergo a C section, what time does the doctor usually do the procedure (not emergency). Early morning, late morning, afternoon, night?

Stopping pony rearing on the ground?

When he goes up, pull him sideways HARD. It'll knock him off balance (and possibly all the way over) and he'll learn quick that rearing is unacceptable.

Legal Questions........?

is there a place that I could ask legal questions like a non emergency PD office or something like that which I could call or email?

My parents abused me! Help?

Ok, so I have to admit, I was a little bit of a jerk(especially on my eriod), I had a little bit on a tantrum. My mom then started hitting me with a belt, pulled my hair, and shirt then my dad ce behind me and strangled me(he's strangled me before, one time when I was 8 and another time a few months ago, I'm 13 now). In the past my dad's called me masty names and my mom is just plain annoying(if you lived with her you would too, trust me).

Is that normal? my 2 yo never had a tantrum?

Consider yourself blessed with an easy going child. Some children are "easier" than others. (Hopefully you didn't just jynx yourself by asking this question.)

Why are people so stupid?

They like stupid things (They will remain nameless in case anyone gets butthurt.), They kill people. They kill innocent children. *cries* They are ignorant. They like being douches. They like picking on random people who hasn't done anything. They type in caps. They commit crimes. They like racism. They like sex. They get mad about pointless stuff. They get angry easily. They just say something random without reading the question and they think stuff is cool because everyone else thinks so. WHY IS THE WORLD SO CRUEL? *Throws tantrum like a 5 year old*

Do I need better friends?

I been friends with these two girls for a while. The first one lets call her sandra, had been my best friend since we were in middle school. She often ditched me for other people but since I had other friends I never seemed to mind or care. Anyways the second one lets call her ginny I have known since elementary but we went to different middle schools and reunited in high school. Ginny and I were just cool with each other never much best friends until now. Well we all started hanging out a lot just the three of us since january and it started with just a casual hang out between the three then we started hanging out all the time on weekends and weekdays. Sandra and I were always closer since we had been best friends longer but now I feel that she doesnt want to be my friend because we have a three way message on facebook and she always asks about ginny, or last time when I told her we should go shopping she was all ok but lets not tell ginny cause I feel bad. which is weird since we never had that problem. I just had a birthday party last saturday and at my birthday party they were all talking and stuff which was fine I had the rest of my friends to talk to but then we took pictures and they were all hugging each other and talking and were kinda ignoring me. I had to go to the club that day and needed ginny to go with my other friend so she could get dropped off at her house and I could make it in time, but she was all NO! i cant my mom is gonna now(which is a lie cause I dropped her off at her house and it was so dark her mom wouldnt of even be able to tell plus this girl is TWENTY!) anyways then sandra is like NO ginny you are going with us! which annoyed me cause they knew I wasnt gonna make it unless Ginny went home with my other friend. Sandras home is on the way to mine so it was ok that I take her. either way I am sick of it, I didnt make it in time for the club and my birthday celebration kinda sucked. both of them usually throw tantrums when I cant do something like once Sandra wanted me to pick ginny up but I didnt have gas in my car and she was all PLEASE PLEASE! I was like I seriously cant I have no money or gas. Sandra has two kids and is 19 and Ginny is 19 single no kids but her parents are super protective even though they have no reason to be. and neither of them can go to the club which is why I needed to drop them off.

Has any one tried to be in a relationship with a hoarder ?

Yea they are Capable of love. My mom was a hoarder. There was always at least a foot of stuff piled throughout the house all over the floor. I kept my room clean. She just couldn't stop shopping. And never cleaned. I think it is something that can be helped it just takes time. Sometimes years. So be prepared to deal with the mess or leave. That's really all you can do after all it is his house. Hope this helped.

How mad will you guys be once the Heat?

Finish off and complete their 7peat and LeGod James will win the next 7 Finals MVP's? How will u guys feel? Would u start crying or throw tantrums at the Heat. Hahaha. Enjoy hating the Heat now, but once we hoist those 7 titles u will bow down to the Mighty Heat and LeGod. LeBron James is already the GOAT, once he gets that 7peat he will be the Mega Star GOAT, far and away above anyone else that has ever played the game. Don't say I didn't warn u fools!

Help please!!! My Daughter swallowed a fish bone.?

She felt something like a bone, going down her throat, but she had already swallowed it. Today she began to feel some pain down her throat. What can we do, it's already night, and if the emergency has X rays possible at night.

Has your toddler ever thrown a tantrum so bad you thought you might need to perform an exorcism?

It was at the OB when I was prego with my second... NO CLUE what started it!! All I remember was being beyond humiliated, somehow managing to get to the car... I was super hormonal to start with, so of course I started crying in the car, and my 2year old started repeating "sorry mommy, sorry mommy, sorry mommy" ... Not my best mommy moment but all I could do when I got home was ignore him, because I didn't want to get angry. He knew that he did something very very wrong and has NEVER done it again! Thank God...

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

How can I prepare myself to be a companion to a girl with severe autism?

Well, first off this is so sweet of u, and speaks volumes on your character. With that being said, this statement is contradicting. It's impossible to treat her like an adult if she functions on a 5 or 6 year old level. That may have been the others problems. ie, a 5yr old wants to run after a ball in the street, do u let them... The person in question wants to do the same, although she's an adult, do u do what's best for her well being, or because she's grown do u let her do what she plz??? Just food for thought.

Not attaching with our adopted baby?

You need to find a lot of patience and stamina. I honestly know that these past two months have been very long and hard. But, you have to understand that it's going to take a lot longer than two months. With both of your children, you and your husband need to be the ONLY ones doing the caretaking. With your daughter, especially, she needs to learn how a family functions. She has lived in an orphanage for two years, has had multiple caretakers and has learned to be charming to get what she wants from whatever adult is in front of her. It's how she's survived. She now needs to learn that you and your husband are the special people called Mom and Dad dedicated to taking care of her. It will take awhile. Don't let other people feed, comfort, bathe, or provide for any of her other major needs except for you and your husband. Your son may actually be having more difficult behavior right now, but I'm actually betting he comes around before your daughter. He's showing preference for a single caretaker, and that actually IS a good sign. He needs that right now, and when he starts to become more secure that his needs are being taken care of, he'll start to slowly but surely let you in. My daughter did not behave this severely for this long, but she preferred Daddy at first. It is hard. When he goes to Daddy to have a need met, Daddy needs to VERBALLY say, while handing him to you, "Mommy is good at feeding you. She will take care of you." Daddy should certainly also keep meeting his needs a lot of the time now, too, but it will help your son to see that his trusted Daddy trusts you and help your son to gain trust in you. With both kids, be affectionate, never raise your voice, show them that you will be there whatever they throw at you. Hang in there. Take care of yourself emotionally and physically. If these problems persist, or at least don't start improving with what you're doing on your own, within a few months, seek professional help.

What would happened if I called 911 in this situation? Do I have any other options?

Simply put, my brother's threatened violence against me multiple times, and his mentality seems unstable enough to me that he would do it. He's recently stepped it up to threats against my life, and since he had physically harmed me during several encounters before, I'm not going to try to doubt him. Mental help is not an option in this situation. No one in my family knows what to do, but he's really scaring me. We've tried talking and reasoning with him on many occasions over the years, but his issues run deeper than whatever triggers his tantrums, and he always focuses them on me. We've decided that if I'm home alone with him and the situation turns serious, I have the option to dial 911. What would happen to him if I did this? Do I have any other options, besides mental help or reasoning?

How can I fix the brake light in my Ford explorer?

My brake line is on because I just got new emergency brakes and so I tested it out today. However, the brake light is on. The emergency brake foot pedal is down on the floor - it's usually elevated a bit. What should I do?

My sister's brother choked me, but she's still with him, what do I do?

My sis had been staying with me for a year because my dad died, but she was living on the road with her boyfriend. And for a while, it was ok, but, they insisted on cleaning. Now I know that's not bad, but the problem wasn't that they were cleaning the problem was, they got on my case about it. I had never told them to clean, nor did I question it. But, they didn't seem to realize it. so, I decided to ignore them and just not clash. btw, I should point this out early on...I'm an 18 year old fat kid, my sis's boyfriend is a 27 year old buff guy, so...kindof intimidating lol. I didn't deal with it til he got angry with me and stole something from me, the house we live in is mine, my father passed it on to me, and my father left me the computer...he made me promise never to tell anyone the password, my mother was living with us while I finished school, so she asked how to log in, I wasn't there, so I told her to wait, and idk how, but my sister's bf changed the password. I lost it, and yelled at him, but eventually decided avoiding him instead, until he kicked my door in. I ran to a friends cuz that's terrifying. but the next morning I came back to him hanging out in my living room as if nothing was wrong...I lost it again, but ran outside and proceeded to punch my fence, I decided to forgive him just to get rid of the conflict faster, but, over time, he got angrier and angrier (still about me not cleaning despite me never telling him to do so) throwing little tantrums and breaking things, stomping on groceries, until one day I was pushed to the edge, and left before I did something I'd regret, I came home later that evening to see a turkey dinner, I refused to eat it, my sis and her boyfriend made it, I called them scum and went to my room, my sis stacked the dirty dishes of everyone who ate the dinner (my whole family) outside my room and told my mother I did it, making her clean it up. I snapped, and ran out and scolded my sis for her foulness, at which her boyfriend came out and glared at me flexing so he could intimidate me, but I was done with that, I got in his face, he yelled at me for calling them scum, and I yelled as loud as I could at him, "You are scum!" he grabbed me by the throat and when told he would go to jail, he said, still glaring at me "He's 18" I went to a cop 2 days later at my highschool...I didn't wanna press charges...I just wanted them to leave, So I filled out a police report just as a precaution to what he may do in the future...it's been about half a year...and my sis is still with them...and we haven't spoken at all...my mother wants me to forgive her immediately because she wants her daughter back...but...she doesn't see what it's done to me psychologically...what do I do...and how do I do it...thanks for all of your help.

"Man kicked of plane due to his wardrobe"?

Yes, I feel the same. -nothing but a big baby - sounds like a spoiled brat acting beligerent; whaaa, whaaa......even mommy is making excuses for him - part of the problem.

Pelvic vs stomach ultrasound? 10 points?

Nope, two different exams. The pelvic ultrasound you had would have only looked at your prostate (possibly) and bladder. An abdominal ultrasound looks at the abdominal organs housed under your rib cage - pancreas, liver, both kidneys, gall bladder, and spleen. You aren't allowed to eat/drink 8 hours prior because it causes your gall bladder to contract (which means it wouldn't be seen on ultrasound) and causes air in your stomach/bowel which obscures ultrasound.

I am baby sitting two kids this summer and need some ideas?

I am baby sitting a 7 year old girl and a 4 year old boy for the summer. I watch them during the day on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays and in the evenings on Thursdays and Sundays. I am trying to find some things to do with them that cost little money. I can drive and take them places but they are naughty little kids. They don't listen very well and often throw tantrums and think they rule the house. So i don't like rewarding them by taking them to the park after they are bad and stuff. I want some things to do in the house. They are messy too so I don't want art projects and things like that. They have been banned from kool-aid even, because they spilled it everywhere. I need soem ideas on discipline and activities. It would be greatly appreciated.

How to stop my brother from embarrising my family?

my brother is 6 years old. whenever we go to the store he whiles and complains for what he wants.when my parents say no he goes into a tantrum and screams and kicks and cries. everyone close by give a strange look and I want to kill myself. he also cries when he doesnt win and it annoys everyone. Is there a punishment for his behavior? because all my parents do is yell at him and he starts screaming back and running around the house and hitting his head on the wall. I need help because im on the breaking point and I want to punch or slap him so badly!

Cell phone recommendation?

Truthfully i have at&t. Its alright but i would go with verizon. It has the iphone. It has many other great phones. ALso it has the best coverage.

Why does this man keep coming back every night?

Well, this all started happening a few nights ago. I was dreaming about unicorns in leotards like usual when I woke up and saw this creepy guy standing over my bed. He started talking to me about his abnormal body hair and then he left. I decided not to tell anyone since no one would believe me. The next night he was sitting on me and farting a christmas carol. When I screamed he shoved a blanket in my mouth and jumped out my window. I should stop leaving my windows open... The third night he came back and told me his name was Afro Thunder Tattoo Wonder and he wanted to shimme with me. I got my lamp and tried to hit him but he punched me in the face and leaped back out the window. I don't want him to come back tonight so I'm going to sleep outside. Do I have problems? How do I get rid of him? Oh and he added me on facebook and this is how he looks: http://i.crackedcdn.com/phpimages/members/avatars/3/4/4863_170.jpg?1

My son throws a tantrum to go outside!!! HELP!!?

Calmly tell him no and then ignore it. He throws a tantrum because it gets a reaction out of you. If the tantrum continues at length, then calmly pick him up and place him in his bed then continue to ignore it.

Can I get a restraining order against my childrens father for them?(florida)?

My children went to their dads for two weeks. We have joint custody and there is no primary. He kept them for two weeks because Father's Day came on the week I was supposed to have them and my sons birthday was that week as well. On Sunday the 26th the boys came back from their father's house and my four year old told me that he no longer wanted to go to his daddy's house and that his daddy was mean to him. I asked him what happened and he said "daddy calls me a little b word and he kicks me." When we got home from picking them up I noticed that he had two bruises on his face and I asked him what happened and he said that his daddy grabbed has face really hard. I asked him why his daddy was doing this stuff and he said because he was bad and threw a temper tantrum. I called the local police and the police where the children's father lives and I also notified DCFS. I took them to the doctor and to the Child Protection Team doctor. The CPT concluded that with what my son was telling them while I was out of the room, that they see it posing a problem for them to go back to their dads. If I go to the courthouse and file a restraining order against him on the kids behalf will they give it to me. My son is scared and he doesn't act the same anymore. He won't sleep without a light on, if I go somewhere in the next room he screams don't leave me... I am so unbelievable stressed and scared for my childrens lives. Does anyone know if they will give me one with what I have told you? Thanks for your time!

How to justify being sad?

I think that such a huge change in your life is very difficult and you're getting rid of the stress in a healthy way (crying). It's hard to leave everything behind and it's hard to cope with a new town that's a dump. Quite obviously, your parents don't understand or they're trying the wrong ways to get your spirits up. You do realize you can move back to that town when you graduate, right? It's not for forever.

Mother wont follow my food rules for my 11m old son?

Haven't figured it out. Sorry. My mom has the same problem. Yes its a grandparents privilage to spoil a little. But dude, a little restrait is ok. I can not get my mom to even remember to slice up the friking hot dog (not really nutricious choice but ok) so its not a choking hazard. She thinks a booster seat in the car is the same as a infant car seat. I swear she would be ok with out a car seat. Well this doesn't help you in the slightest but at least you know you are not alone.

I am a bit worried about this?

yes you will have to take off your whities. But its ok what happens there stays there. Dont be shy they are just doing their job. But you can also ask for privacy it is your right. Just let them know

Did my emergency contraceptive pills reject my body?

The emergency contraceptive/morning-after pill has three modes of action (as ... can be altered causing the woman's body to reject the living human embryo, ...

What if your best friend rejected your apology?

firstly, sorry for whats happened it must have been hard and in some ways I can sympathize with you, because I've had a ton of fall outs in the past, but you just have to think to yourself, if this guy is saying all thins stuff and being a backstabber, are they really worth it? are they worth worrying about? It's hard when you fall out with a best mate, I know. I'd been best friends with this one girl since birth, but after loads of arguments I finally put my foot down in the past few months and we're not best friends anymore. It was hard for a while, but now it's better and I can get on with my life without having to worry if she's saying stuff behind my back. Just remember BE YOURSELF! and if people can't accept you for who you are then they are the ones missing out on a great friendship. :) x (sorry it's a long answer :L)

How much mg of calcium do I need to recover from calcium defiencicy?

I went to the emergency room last night and they told me I could have calcium defiencicy! About how many mg of calcium do I need to recover? I know my daily amount for my age (17) is 1000 mg

Need help emergency ?

By mistake I drop water on my time warner cable box and it see through on top of the cable I out it upright so all the water can drain out of the box at first it wasnt working then I unplug it several times then it started working again the only thing I that the power button for the cable box doesn't work but Istill can turn it on from the controller would it catch on fire or explode and should I get a new cable box

What is the best dog for a special need girl that has a lot of tantrums?

my daughter is 16 but is the size and mind of a 3 or 4 year old. she loves dogs but can be a bit rough when playing. i would like a smallish inside house dog for her and would like your suggestions please

Help please emergency! ?

okay so right now i'm scared or idk wat going on but about 2-1 months ago i took a photo and i took one today and i look fat! idk why and before i was a size 14 now im a size 8-10 and every one tells me i look thin and all but i feel so fat and when i look in the mirror i look fat even tho people tell me i look supee thin and idk why this is happening i need help im 13 years old, and im a girl and idk y and every one says my face is,skinny and small but i look in the mirror it look chubby and round help!!! i'm driving nuts! even my friends say everytime i see u you look thinner but for me it everytime i see myself i look fatter

Do you think CPS is corrupt?

Some of the CPS agents are and use their power to disrupt families because they can, some are over cautious because of all the media coverage of their previous mistakes.}{

Looking after my mum since my dad died? Advice Please?

Your mother is lonely and bored. Try to find a daycare for the elderly, where she can go every day if she wants to. She will have company, and there will be activities for her to occupy her time. Tell her that you realise she is lonely and bored but you have lots to do as well and see what she thinks about this idea. You could choose a recreation center together. Put aside a time for you and your mom to get together for a cup of coffee or something, where you can catch up on each other's lives, maybe once or twice a week. Call her every day. Don't let her make you feel guilty even if she accuses you of wanting to get rid of her. You have to live your own life. Good luck with everything.

Am single 27 year old girl (still virgin) recently I have missed period?

This same thing happened to my sister once. Just a small cysrt on her ovary (ahe had th same pain too!) She never had major surgery or anything so it;s usually not that big of a deal. Sorry I'm not that much help!

Are there high chances of being pregnant for me?

You can wait until the test comes back although I don't think you are pregnant. The thing with birth control is that once you stop taking them, they do weird things to your body. But just be patient and before you know it, the week will be up. Good luck :-)

Which bikini will I look sexier in? Going to Domican Republic for Spring Break?

Definetely the first one! I love the bright "pop" of colors also:) have fun during spring break!!

15 & a half weeks, had OB appt 2day &she couldn't find the heartbeat on the Doppler, cud my baby still be ok:(?

I think everything should be fine and it's just a fluke she didn't find it. Try not to stress as that wont help at all. I know its not easy when something is so scary. Best wishes!

Tooth Extraction help? (Smoking/drinking etc)?

You need to get checked out with your regular dentist to make sure there is no infection set in,you may need antibiotics if there is. Meanwhile rinse your mouth out with salt water as this will help with healing process.I don't understand why you are still getting pain,the gums soon start to shrink which may cause only minor discomfort.I would urge you to see your dentist sooner rather than later.

EMERGENCY! Around how much weight could I lose if I ate one slice if cheese a day for 30 days?

That is essentially aneroxia.... anyways, after a while, you'd stop losing so much weight and once you went off the diet, your weight could double, its a stupid thing to do for stupid people who can't wait a little longer for weight to come off

Is this abuse? I'm amazed at this situation.?

If it's not abuse, I don't know what else you'd call it!!! This man has some serious anger problems! To go berserk over the situations he's reacting to are certainly far from being anywhere normal. Honey, he's going to hurt you badly one of these times & I seriously mean he could permanently hurt you with the items he's throwing around. These are far from being "lite weight" items! I've been involved in two abusive marriages & have also gotten Restraining Orders for fear of being permanently hurt. Please, if you value your life, you MUST get him out of YOUR home. You so easily could just get a Restraining Order taken out on him & there's no way he would be able to contact you...no way!!! IF he did, the Police would take care of it all for you. You've got to think of yourself & your safety. I KNOW too well how abuse of every single kind is & what it does to a person. PLEASE for your own safety & your own sake, get him away from you. I too have the suspicion the ONLY way you're going to be able to get him out of your home is via Restraining Order. The Police & Judges are totally against Domestic Violence. This IS what you ARE dealing with...Just please please be safe....the best to you...:)

What is my friends problem?

He definitely has problems.......he needs help if he sees you going to church as being wrong....find better friends.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Late on my AT&T bill.?

This month i had to take my dog to the emergency vet so im really short on funds. How manys day can i be late on my AT&T bill? I spoke to them about two weeks ago and they said i had a really high customer rating in their computer system will that help me any?

How do I deal with my sister?

sounds like she might be depressed. She needs a counselor or someone to talk to. When it gets physical, it's gone too far. Next time leave/walk away when you see it going down that road. It's sad to say, because she's older than you...but looks like you have to be the bigger person :(

Which of these guys have a better chance of winning a boxing match Saturday?

Any guy fighting at 5'9" and 300 lbs. isn't a dedicated, determined, well trained ( as what trainer would let this guy fight at that weight ) at only 5'9" tall.boxer. What's his record ?

I need help. What do I do?

Ok so someone who is very close to me is addicted to drugs and I need some advice. I'm 31 weeks pregnant with my first child and my husband has epilepsy. This person is completely selfish, throws temper tantrums when she doesn't get her way, lies, steals, has already gotten into trouble with the police because of shoplifting and driving with no insurance or license, has gotten her license suspended, and if all that isn't enough she's threatening to take my baby away when my husband and I don't do EXACTLY as she says. I just need help I know I should turn her in but I don't want to loose my baby over this either. WHAT DO I DO??????

I shoved my mom and she sprained her ankle...but I think i did the right thing?

Okay, before you freak out on me. My mom likes to have these temper tantrums to get her point across. She's done it ever since I can remember. I'm 16, now..anyway she called me early this morning about 5 minutes before I had to get to work. She told me that she needed certain clothes washed, and I told her that I couldn't wash them because I was running late. So she said snaps at me and says "Wash those clothes or your grounded." which is ridiculous. Whatever. So I get home from work later and as soon as I walk in the door she freaks out on me. Screaming at me about how I didn't do what she asked. So I told her again, that I was running late for work and I can go wash the clothes now if she still needs them. She just kept screaming, so I start to tune her out.. Suddenly I hear my puppy yelping. She was kicking and beating my puppy! I freaked out pushed her away from my dog and took him upstairs with me. He's limping and shaking. I don't know what to do. She ended up spraining her ankle and won't even talk to me. I don't know whats wrong with her. She has never freaked out that bad. What should I do? Like i said, she has never freaked out this bad before, usually its just yelling.

2yr old Tantrums. Does your child slap themselves in the face?

My daughter is almost 2 and she doesnt slap herself in the face but she throws herself back on the floor like yours and she bangs her head against the wall sometimes. Its REALLY annoying! Also sometimes when we say NO! she covers her eyes like her boyfriend broke up with her or something. I dont get why is so dramatic, other peoples kids are sooo good at that age!! I personally think its normal. Every child is different and so they all have their own ways to deal with anger and other feelings. My friend has a 2 year old too, and he used to scratch his face when he was mad or upset. He actually stopped, but its just to show you that its only a phase so it should go away.

Does the pain of losing a "fetus" ever ease?

On April 10th I went to the emergency room with severe bleeding. I was 9 weeks pregnant. After two sonograms I was told by the doctor that my baby was ectopic and they believed that it was in my falopian tube. I woke up 4 hours later from surgery (which was only supposed to take 45 minutes) and the back of my right hand where the needle was, was covered in blood. It turned out that the baby wasn't in my tubes after all, it was actually on one of my ovaries. When they lifted my ovary I began to bleed heavily and they had to give me a blood transfusion. Since the baby was on my ovary they had to do a bikini cut to remove it. Everyday I either unintentionally look at or feel that scar and it is like a knife to the heart. Every Saturday (when the week I was pregnant would change), I always think, I would be 17 weeks along now, or I would be 19 weeks now. And it kills me to see babies. It doesn't matter if I see them in real life, or even on TV, it hurts so bad. What makes it worse is that I have a 3 year old who has a genetic disease, he is now a normal little boy, but he had to go through chemotherapy and a blood transplant at Duke University in NC (I live in MI) and for a week we almost lost him. What they did wasn't a cure, but a treatment, so the damage that has been done to his bones and his hearing loss will never go away. Don't get me wrong, I love my son, and I am so greatful that I didn't lose him, but I think that one of my children God gave a horrible disease to, and the other one he took away from me. It hurts so bad, I know that it has only been less than three months, but will the pain of the loss ever ease? I want to get pregnant again, but I'm scared. I don't want to go through that again, and the doctor said that since I have had one ectopic pregnancy I am more likely to have another one. I just don't want it to feel like a knife in the heart every time i think about it.

Emergency travel document, question.?

I somebody needs a emergency travel document and they walk in to the embassy or where it is that they issue them, with the properwork and documents required by them, how quickly can/do they issue the emergency travel document.

At what point should I make my toddler come inside?

It is about 95 degrees outside. I came inside because I was roasting. He has sun block on, and he was mostly staying on the porch where it is in the shade, but still he's getting awfully flushed from the heat. He usually eats his afternoon snack at the table out there, but it was hot so I brought it inside hoping he would follow it in, but it didn't seem to help. I usually just let him play outside all afternoon because he is far happier out there and I don't have to deal with the dozens of tantrums there always are when he's playing inside. Should I bring him in to protect him from the heat, or just let him play and be happy?

Do I interview gym daycare?

I want to start going to the gym and the one I plan to go to has a daycare center. Is there some sort of protocol when taking your child as far as interviewing them or providing them with certain important information? I'm not sure if I should just go and leave her with emergency information or stay with her for the first few times? What did you do with your little one? Also my daughter is 16 months if she cries is there anything I can do to make her more comfortable? I can't work out at home with her around and I'm really bad about going early morning or late at night plus I'd like for her to get out for a bit too. Advice needed!

Can this be legal or put into place?

I don't see how it can be illegal for you to be in your own home. You might want to see if you can spend a couple nights with a friend to pacify her so she doesn't stir things up. You're older now and should be able to stay alone.

Introducing a puppy to my 7 year old dog?

I think you should get a dog thats an adult, or even like a year old. Most the time older dogs don't like little puppies. If the puppy is for your other dog, why not just get an older one that she'd get along with better. Other then that it sounds fine.

I think I just got PTSD from work emergencies?

My client had 3 life threatening emergencies within 2 hours last night. After that, whenever she made a noise, I thought she would have another seizure and tried to rush over there, but she just coughed. Then I was outside w/her family and thought I heard her screaming for help and panicked, but she was fine. I had 2 startle reponses driving home. My roommate is home, and somehow made a noise that my client would made, and my heart started racing until I realized everything was fine. I keep thinking I'm hearing my phone ring, my computer do things, and for some reason, I think about her seizures. They were all really bad and the confusion and seizures lasted over 15 min each. I'm afraid I'll be there and she'll die and that I could have prevented it. Is this PTSD? It happened on the job, but I was told what i was getting into. What do I do?

Violent temper..Bi Polar?

I have always had a short fused temper even as a teen. Since I hit my early twenties though and met my husband it got worse. I have overreacted and distrusted, thrown temper tantrums and yelled,hit. I have had anxiety/ocd for years but this anger problem makes me worry about conditions like "Bi Polar or Borderline". I don't have any symptoms of bi polar (manias, depression, etc.) I have no history of bi polar in my family, I have never taken many drugs, I drink next to nothing, NO history of self harm (such as those with borderline exhibit), no severe emptiness. I don't go off on anyone else really at all. I'm actually mild mannered around friends, others, etc. But my temper has been volatile and out of control at times towards the spouse. And he didn't deserve it. My mom is tempered also but by no means a "bipolar". Of course my temper has decreased by a landslide now after fearing this for the last couple months.

My 2 year old throws huge tantrums when things are out of place, is this a sign of autism?

He has never really thrown fits before, this just started a few days ago and it's only when things aren't where they go, or if something (like a floaty) is in the pool. He is still very talkative, smiles all the time, and is affectionate he loves to gives kisses and hugs as well as getting them. Is this just a phase, or is there something wrong?

BLEACH FANS: (Easy question)?

To be completely honest i dont think either really resemble her. If you work on the part on the first sim a little more you might get it.

Daughter won't quit biting?

My daughter has been diagnosed with autism, and acts out behaviorally. When she throws one of her tantrums she tries to bite people, mostly her younger brother. I have tried to show her what she has done and told her it hurts him, but she doesn't seem to understand. Anyone have any suggestions to help stop the biting? Thanks.

How how long does vertigo last in pregnant women? How do I treat it?

I'm 19 and 33 weeks into my pregnancy currently. About 3 days ago I started experiencing a spinning sensation followed by severe nausea and vomiting. I am unable to walk correctly and have major balance problems. The effects of the constant spinning have not subsided for 2 days straight. I went to UMC and Southern hills emergency rooms to no avail. Visited my obgyn today to find out I had vertigo. I'm scared and confused, never had any health issues in my life besides maybe a stomach flu or two. I can't leave bed without tumbling and becoming very puky. Any advice would help.

Did Jesus Throw A "Temper Tantrum"?

The reason he was so upset was because the people were being dishonest in how they were selling their goods. I guess he had a good reason to be mad, they were using God's temple as a place to con people of their money, and sell unclean items! So yeah, I guess he did go crazy for a bit, but I don't mean that in a bad way at all, cause it was awesome.

Which bikini will look sexier on me? Going to Miami beach, FL for spring break?

Seriously - no push ups. In Miami, padding and push-ups scream "tourist." It's South Beach - small and topless (or near topless) beats padded or pushed up everytime. In Miami, no one even wears a bra unless they absolutely have to.

Is this a good example of the tolerance that the left promotes?

LOL..first...what happened to freedom of speech.....or, does that only count when YOU want it too...HAHAHAHA....second....I highly doubt anyone was crazy mean to them with 2 bodyguards around...and if he is such a lovely peaceful man...why the heck does he need 2 bodyguards...LOL....zero provocation....hahahaha....if he does not provoke anyone...again..why does he need bodyguards.....there is a price to pay oh Glenny boy when you open your mouth and spew lies....

Introducing a kitten to another cat?

Well my kitten is now 2 years old and i have a older cat who's 16 years old and she didn't grow up around the younger cat and that's just how cats are, Your older cat probably needs to get used to your younger cat, Just let them Adapt on their own. Don't force them to get along it will take time but in the end they will become friends, Hope I helped! :) Good luck!!

Need help with 5 year old tantrums and attitude, any suggestions?

My girlfriend has a 5 year old son and he is becoming unbearable, he is continously screaming and becoming violent and treats everyone horribly, his mother is almost continuously crying about it because he has no respect for her at all and has even told her that he will treat her like a dog because she is one, the only person he ever screams for is his gran and whenever they are together I am literally disgusted, she hugs him and holds his face to her breast and whenever he is told off by anyone she hugs him and tells him he's a little angel or gives him sweets, he can use the toilet by himself but will scream at random ocassions wanting someone to wipe him and if you tell him to do it himself he will either scream for an hour or wipe it on the seat on purpose. Me and his mum have tried everything but nothing ever works and our relationship is struggling because of it, please can someone help or give advice?

Brakes suddenly went out in car.?

I went to move my car and when I tried to stop the brake pedal went straight to the floor so I pulled the emergency brake and turned the car off, then a couple hours later I started my car and the brakes worked fine, should i keep driving or have it checked out?

My grandson and his parents-should I just butt out?

My grandson will be 2 in mid-July. My son and daughter-in-law do not live close to us so we see them 3-4 times a year. This past week they came home for an important family gathering and I am disturbed at my grandsons progress or lack of as far as communication. My son and his wife are WONDERFUL parents, but I am wondering if they are too doting. My grandson points and they jump-- he throws temper tantrums when he doesn't get his own way and they do nothing about it. He speaks very little although I know he can as when it is just him and I-he will talk up a storm. My husband and I babysat one night while they went out with some friends and it took me a while, but we finally had him running around-playing and rolling around outside. He was having a ball. He got dirty like I have never seen him (which is really not allowed by my DIL at all) and went to bed without issue and slept all night long. They picked him up in the morning and he was winey and moody all over again. They live in a very warm area, where it gets pretty miserable outside--so they stay in the house alot. They watch tv quite a bit and since they work alot (she a restaurant manager and he owns his own consturction company), he is at the sitters alot of the time. He is as smart as a whip--I do not believe for one minute he isn't able to do all the things a 2 year old should do, he just doesnt' when his parents are around and they don't make him. They have just entered him into a new daycare/nursery school that I think will benefit him greatly--playing with other kids and having to speak etc. I wish he lived closer so he could spend more time with us (we live on a farm and he LOVES the animals) but that is not possible. The stories I hear from my DIL about her upbringing, her parents were very, very strict, bordering on cruel (opne side of the story I know) my son was disciplined and to be honest once he got past about 7-8 years, I hardly ever had to discipline him, he had a good solid basis of right and wrong. They are both loving parents and I know they believe they are doing the right thing and only want whats best but sometimes I think they are too laid back with him. So do I keep my mouth shut or do I say something to my son/DIL? The not discipling is the part that really concerns me. They have to have a good solid base or they get out of hand as they get older.

Should I quit my 2nd job(babysitting 1 day a week)?

You should keep it not just because its nice but because of the money and if overall everythings that miserable you need to cut hours somewhere else

I really want to give up figure skating but I feel pressured by my family to stick at it?

It's time to sit your parents down and say, "Mum, Dad, I know this is what you want for me, but figure skating is not what ~I~ want anymore. I know this will disappoint you, but I can't keep living a lie. I have no enjoyment for the sport anymore."

Not attaching to my adopted baby?

he defiantly needs help with something. something probably happened to him at the orphanage and my bet is it involved a women caregiver. you may never know what it was but you can find ways to help him. he also may have some form of autism. your agency or doctor should be able to help you find the right resources to help him out. good luck

I REALLY NEED HELP! CAN SOMEONE HELP ITS AN EMERGENCY :(?

MY FRIEND IS 12 WEEKS PREGNANT AND SHES BLEEDING HEAVILY AND IN ALOT OF PAIN. NO ONE IN HER FAMILY KNOWS SHE IS PREGNANT BECAUSE SHE IS ONLY 13 YRS OLD. SHE THINKS SHE IS HAVING A MISCARRIAGE WHICH WE BOTH HOPE SHE IS NOT. BUT IF IT COMES TO HER HAVING A MISCARRIAGE. WHAT DO WE EXPECTED. DOES SHE HAVE TO PUSH THE BABY OUT? IS THE BABY BIG OR DOES IT JUST COME OUT LIKE A LITTLE BLOOD CLOT?? I REALLY NEED HELP. I DONT KNW WHAT TO DO TO HELP HER. SHE DOESNT WANT HER FAMILY TO KNOW BUT IM NOT SURE WHAT TO DO WITH HER!!

Do you agree that sexual history of promiscuous women can lend a whole new meaning to the word INSECURITY?

because, many times..... not always, women are looking for a good man who can lessen their insecurities.... those men you described are often the "icons" for women. Being a young women who meets one of these said "icons" can sometimes prove to be overwhelming ("like, he really likes me", when often its just him thinking "yea, I'd do her")... after many of these mistakes and some years of education on men... the good men will shine through. I have ... ahem, a few, but mostly from when I was under 18, so technically I was promiscuous then.... but really I was just trying to figure it out. Look more at when a girl had her numbers at the highest (I look at the same for men).... because if they have been with a LOT of men/women in the past 6 months..... chances are they are still on that mindset. They will be looking for a aesthetic equal, or what they believe to be one, and/or one really awesome in bed. Some people don't grow out of that, but if it is in her past, then that has NOTHING to do with you, thats why they are looking at different males, they have figured some of it out, and might want to settle down. But that is just my personal opinion. Some women enjoy the conquests, others are looking for mates who will always love them.

Monday, July 18, 2011

My daughters routine disturbed?

I dont have an answer for the first bit of your post but i have an answer for the sencond bit. When my sister was a child I remember that my mum had to explain to her that her father had died. They had been very close and they were just like best friends. My sister found it very hard to deal with and admittitly she was very upset. It is never easy to deal with any sort of loss, espicially when your a child. So when my mum told her, she told her quite quickly and then tried to keep her busy, as to stop her from thinking about it. Hope this helped.

I need help understanding what a p45 does?

i came over from new zealand to the u.k to work under a tier 5 working holiday visa, at my first job i had no n.i number so i was on emergency tax, after i left that job i travelled for a bit then returned to work for the same company (Mitchell's and butlers) but in a different location but i had a n.i number. not until 6 months later have i heard that i can reclaim tax or that i should have a p45. how do i get one, what does it do, and am i in the wrong for not having one?

Is it okay to get my 7 year old son a pet cat?

We got him some rabbits two years ago and he tortured and killed them. I came home one day and found blood all over the kitchen table. I went up to his room and found the rabbit heads on top of sticks. Do you think enough time has passed for him to get another pet? He's requesting a cat. We think it might help with his behavioral issues. He's got a lot of anger issues and throws tantrums and threatens me a lot and he punched me last week, we think it might get nickled in the buck if he has an animal companion to take care of to help him learn to be more polite and caring.

Area and perimeter help. Basic Algebra :) ?

well maybe i'm an idiot but it looks like the perimeter is 14 and the area is 9 but the labelings a little confusing...

Can i ask a judge for child support?

hello i filed for child support through ca dcss and i was wondering if i could also include that in my divorce paperwork to be able to establish an emergency support??? He was served by dcss on may 16th but because he wasnt personally served he has 45 days to respond making that the end of this month but dcss told me it could be december before i see anything and i could really use the help now. So am i able to basically go around them or do i just have to wait it out?

Why are people so stupid?

They like stupid things (They will remain nameless in case anyone gets butthurt.), They kill people. They kill innocent children. *cries* They are ignorant. They like being douches. They like picking on random people who hasn't done anything. They type in caps. They commit crimes. They like racism. They like sex. They get mad about pointless stuff. They get angry easily. They just say something random without reading the question and they think stuff is cool because everyone else thinks so. WHY IS THE WORLD SO CRUEL? *Throws tantrum like a 5 year old*

Can simple mobile work on a comet android?

I bought a comet because i thought all t mobile phones worked on a simple mobile plan but it keeps telling me that the network is unavalable nd also it says emergency calls only.. i checked that the sim card is placed correctly also turned it off nd on but it still says no service.. does anybody know what might be going on? thanks

What Would YOU Do In This Situation? Thx!! (10 for best, promise)?

Ugh why did she make you out to be the bad person, silly woman isn't she!! If I were in this situation I would do it for the little girl because she's probably at the age where she would assume she did something wrong and therefore is not allowed have her hair done or something. Like maybe she wouldn't understand. Basically though, be very weary of these women the next time and don't offer something, wait for them to ask you. Explain to your husband that if it were your own child you would want someone to help out and forget any differences between adults. Hope it works out ok!

DOES MY 2 YEAR OLD HAVE AN ANXIETY DISORDER?

I have a 2 year and 9 month old little girl. She is the 3rd child of our 4 children my husband and I have together. Since she was around 1.5 everyone viewed her as increadibly intelligent, maybe even gifted as she talked in complete sentences, was very intelligent, and excelled in every area over other children her age. About 1 month before she turned to until now, she has begun being what my husband and I would call terrible 2's from hell. We attributed a lot of it to us having our 4th child at this time. However, as time has progressed, her behavior has gotten so bad, it literally dictates a lot of how the family acts and what we do. The normal temper tantrums have now appeared to become laced with anxiety, and they all depend on the mood she is in. Some days are great, others, are hell. Sometimes there are triggers, sometimes nothing appearently sets her off but she goes into hysterics over something yesterday would not have bothered her. The main things that seem to be the problem are when she can't get something exactly right it seems to upset her so much she appears to be physically in pain. For example, if she can not lay a baby doll the exact way she sees in her head to lay it, she is inconsoloble until we are able to figure out how to get it in that position. Also, sometimes noises bother her, or "shapes" she says things aren't the right shape, or she can't hear something when it's very loud, or says something is too loud when there is no noise (she does know the difference). When playing with other children for the most part she does well, however, when it comes to someone playing at our house, the child has to ask permission to come into our home and play. If they don't she gets very upset, and each toy, whether its hers or not, has to be given permission to play with. Please do not say it's a discipline problem, trust me it isn't the issue. We have tried everything and it doesn't work. When she gets upset, there is no consoling her until we can "fix" whatever is bothering her. I thought maybe she had a sensory disorder, but maybe it's anxiety. I don't know. My doctor told me it was normal, but it isn't. Trust me. I am a social worker for the state, I see kids her age every day, in good, bad, and worse situations and she is not normal. So any help would be great. Thanks.

Is it okay to get my 7 year old son a pet cat?

We got him some rabbits two years ago and he tortured and killed them. I came home one day and found blood all over the kitchen table. I went up to his room and found the rabbit heads on top of sticks. Do you think enough time has passed for him to get another pet? He's requesting a cat. We think it might help with his behavioral issues. He's got a lot of anger issues and throws tantrums and threatens me a lot, we think it might get nickled in the buck if he has an animal companion to take care of to help him learn to be more polite and caring.

What do you think of this...?

It sounds like you have some kind of depressive disorder, although I'm not exactly sure what. There would have to be a much more thorough analysis to effectively provide an answer, which I doubt could be done on yahoo answers. If you are seriously concerned, I would highly recommend that you see your GP, who in turn can refer you to a psychologist. This psychologist can then either give you online tests or ask you some questions to try to determine what the case is. Make sure you feel comfortable with the psychologist; there is nothing wrong with telling them that you don't feel comfortable talking to them and that you would prefer to see someone else.

My daughters won't talk to me and they're very mad?

I know exactly why they are is acting this way, it's because I am giving away our dog Millie. My daughter Sarah is 10 years old and my daughter Tatum is 10 year old too ( they are twins ). Well we got this Dalmatian puppy for their birthday last month, my husband insisted we get them a puppy so we did and we payed 600 dollars for the dog. Ever since then this house has been turned upside down and I can't take it anymore the dog pees and poops everywhere inside. Millie chews the furniture and my clothes and shoes and everything! The girls take care of her very well but this dog is just out of control. She jumps every, she run around on the furniture, she digs up the flower beds, she always so excited and jumps on me and the girls. Millie also will nip at you and sometimes she gets so excited she pees and scratches us on the legs.She howls all night and when we take her out for a walk she pulls hard and her tail wags so fast it hurts! She also get bored all the time, we buy her tons of toys she plays with them for awhile then never play with them again. I myself feed he properly, walk her three times a day,I let her run free in the yard twice, the girls play with her, we potty trained her when she was a little puppy. She completely insane and goes crazy she bark so loud too. I told the girls I am giving her away because I am and they both cried and threw a tantrum. They screamed at me and yelled " I HATE YOU!" my husband didn't do anything they refuse to talk to me and locked Millie in their room. I explained to them why we have to give Millie away and they still refuse to talk to me. What I am doing is right and there is no doubt about it, this dog idea was stupid and it will never work Millie is to crazy and she can't learn anything she a stupid dog and I am giving her away and maybe putting her down asleep. I haven't told the girls that I might put the dog down. I tried punsihments for the girls but they don't care. Any advice on how I can make them cool down and talk to me again? Help please husband is mad to.

How many weeks of unemployment do Florida residents get?

Well, it is finally official and I am getting unemployment, but trying to find out how many WEEKS I will get (if needs be) has been a challenge. I have read 26 weeks, 52 weeks, and heard that the Obama emergency unemployment... thing can give up to 104 weeks if needs be (which I REALLY hope I don't need). I live in an area that is kind of dead at the moment, and I have been looking for work believe you me, but I am trying to plan in case of the worst case scenario. The information I have recieved from the unemployment center has not mention how many weeks I have. HELP! I miss sleeping at night.

Did I overreact when my daughter posted she didn't want to live anymore?

My daughter posted this on Facebook: " What happens when you don't want to live anymore? I'm about there and Its scary." I live 5 states away, and I tried to call and she wouldn't answer. She had came out here on vacation with her family, and left her two girls with us, and I hadn't heard from her since she got home on Sunday. I got her husband and told him what she had posted, and he said he had talked to her and she was upset, and wasn't picking him up from work, he had to find a way home. I told him I thought she needed to go to the emergency room, she's on depression meds. She then called me crying so loudly I couldn't understand what she was saying, but finally got that she thought he was lying and cheating on her. Then she said the police were at the door. They ended up having her call me back so they could talk to me about what was going on, and I told them about her threat. Worst part is my son-in-law is in the Navy, and his Captain brought him home. He had called 911 because of my concern. She had also called my sister, who heard her crying uncontrollably, and his mother. I got a text from him 4 hours later telling me I had overreacted and that I had put his career in jeopardy. She was just having a "cry" day. She called my sister back, but not me. I am not an idiot or an interfering mother. Because of another sister, I've dealt with mental health issues 35 years, but realize I can make a mistake. I need an objective opinion. What should I have done?

Is it possible i was sexually abused as a child?

I think the most telling thing that you may have been abused is the acting out with your dolls. Many times children will act out with dolls things that bother them they can't talk about. It seems since you liked being babied by your mom, the bed wetting could have been a symptom of that. You need to figure out why you liked your mom to baby you. Was it because your parents had another child that threatened to take their attention from you, did you feel some of your childhood innocence was lost or did your mom just have you spoiled & acting like a baby was the best way to ensure she continued? It's normal to feel more comfortable with a parent of the same sex bathing you, especially since your mom was probably always the one who did it anyway. Not remembering long stretches of childhood is also a sign abuse may have occurred. The eating disorder could have happened because of anything that made you feel out-of-control (like the divorce) & it's your way of gaining some control over yourself. Not everything you described points to abuse but some may.

Puppy had a oatmeal raisin cookie.??! *Help!*?

This morning I noticed my 16 week Yorkie was nibbling a bunch of my moms homemade oatmeal raisin cookies, and their HAS to be ad-least 11 raisins in one cookie. He ate approximately 2 cookies. I quickly took away all of the cookies, and threw them away. Then, I asked my sister if she had been eating the cookies, and she admit some fell on the floor and she didn't bother to pick them up. Then, I went to my mom and told her the situation; she said dogs are extremely toxic to raisins. I researched that on my own, and it says dogs can DIE by a few raisins.??!! I was extremely worried, and called our local vet. They are packed, and the next possible time they have is 10 pm. *It's almost 11:30 am*. I tried talking to the lady, I even told her it is an emergency, but she said she couldn't make any possible exceptions. What should I do? I gave my dog lots of water, and he is not drinking alot. I put him to bed, and I noticed he didn't sleep, but got all sleepy-ish, and tried to hide from me. What should I do? I got him not too long ago, and I love him deeply :( PLEASE HELP :'(

My 21 mo old grandson doesn't like adults or children, and cries when they get near?

He is affectionate and engaging with his mother, father, me and grandfather. That's it. He will not warm up to anyone else and cries if anyone even looks at him. He will not participate in playgroups and doesn't like being around other children. He also has bad moods alot, wakes up grouchy and stays that way and has tantrums. His mother is a stay at home mom but she tries to take him to Gymborama and other type of play groups but he doesn't want to do anything. His father gives him alot of attention,too. He is very well loved and cared for. Also lately he has been hitting. What could be wrong and how can we help him? It is exhausting to everyone because he is hardly ever happy.

How can I get my mom in a better mood?

Okay, so make a long backstory short, my dad is in a detention center for 30 days. I am staying strong (i'm 16), but my mom sometimes is like a 3 year old. I get I don't do much during the day (I babysit and petsit 2-3 out of 5 days), and she is running my dad's business without him and stuff Sometimes she is like "Ashley, I am strong, its only 30 days, and we get to visit him, I'm a-okay (:" and other times she throws LEGIT hissy fits. Like this morning I mowed the lawn, and I said that the grass was piling up on the wheels, so she took a hose and rinsed them off, but she got a little water on the hot motor, so now it won't start (I know if I leave it overnight, it will be fine, its happened with my dad before) and so she was like I F*****G BROKE IT WHY DOES ALL THIS S**T HAPPEN TO ME?!?!?!?!?!?! and then she threw a dining chair at the fireplace. Then she was like GO VACUUM YOUR ROOM LIKE I ASKED YOU TO FOUR DAYS AGO!!! And i apologized and she was like Next time, just listen to me and do what I say!! Then about 20 minutes later, she came in with a "i don't wanna be here, saying this to you" face and said "sorry i freaked out". I know she's stressed, but sometimes I'm like who is the adult here?? we're going out with some friends (mom's friend has a daughter who is my BFF) and I just want to make sure she isn't like I DON'T WANNA GO OUT or be in a pissy mood the whole time.....HELP ME! Why is she acting like a tantrum brat!?

My 10 year old daughter does not like my boyfriend. What do I do?

It has been about 7 years since my daughter's father and I have separated. I have had boyfriend's in the past but not as serious as my boyfriend now. Things were great in the beginning and it wasn't until we made plans to move in with each other that my daughter began to dislike my boyfriend. He has done nothing but try to be nice to her. She has started to throw temper tantrum saying that I love him more than her and that she hates me and wants to live with her father. I don't know what to do anymore because I love both of them. I just want us to be a happy family, is there hope? I just don't understand because her father has a new girlfriend and she loves her. My daughter tells me that I have to choose between her and my boyfriend and that she does not have to be around him if she doesn't want too. It has even gone as far as her texting my mom and my mom coming to get her and told her that she will call HRS on me if I have her around him. I have done nothing for her to call HRS. (neither has my boyfriend) I work two jobs and have a nice place to live and take care of my daughter. I feel as if I should not let her rule my life because I am the mom but she makes me look bad and tells everyone I don't love her. Sometimes the stress is so much that I told her she can live with her dad if that's okay with him. I don't want to give up on my daughter or my boyfriend but I deserve to be happy too! So stressed out...... :(

Please help me out please?

Listen to these facts. Bill Gates could not complete college, Richard Branson founder of Virgin is a college dropout, Walt disney tried his hands in many business ventures and failed before he came up with Mickey.You have to understand that life is a mixture of failure and success. There are no failures only learning experiences. Concentrate on your studies now. You can get through with ease by hardwork and determination. Tell your parents to give you a chance. They will surely support you. You developed a false theory that non of your friends want you. I recommend you talk to them and you will be surprised. Go to local church or club, places were people know you and accept you and most important were you feel comfortable.Wish you all the best.

Puppies first shots.?

Does your local shelter also have a low cost clinic? Ours does spay/neuters but also offers shots, and if you get them all there is normally a discount. It can get pretty expensive since they will need multiples of most of the shots as they grow up. We went to PetSmart and got on their Wellness plan (cost about $150 upfront) and we pay about $21 a month. It covers all their pup shots, rabies, wellness exams, free office visits unlimited, and the spay/neuter as well. It was way cheaper then the vets in our area and our dog LOVES this vet! They've healed him past a broken leg and dem. mange.

Airplane questions please answer?

there is a plane that has and upper deck. i wanted to know if there was an emergency what would the people on the upper deck do.? would it cause danger everyone running down the stairs?

When your child screams that they hate you- do they mean it?

my daughter had a little tantrum fit and was screaming at her father and said she hated him. i really have no idea what to think... I never thought she would have said that! D:

HEADACHE PLEASE HELP????!! emergency?

I've had a headache for a straight WEEK and idk why.no medicines like advil or tylenol works. Its not unbearable but it bothers me. I'm very VERY nervous because I'm scared its an anyuresm or brain tumor, I'm so nervous I need help. I can't see a doctor I'm going on a family vacation TOMORROW. WHAT DO I DO? I'm only 16 I'm really scared

Can i use my Dell Laptop Windows Disk to install Windows in other PC?

I got a Dell Laptop which has Windows 7 Pro Original CD.... Due to some emergency case i need to install Windows 7 on some other PC.... Currently i have only 1 disk of Windows 7 that is the Dell one.. Can i use that disk to install Windows on other PC?? I mean if i install using that CD, will it activate using same key i can enter another key which i have??

Does this sound like a respectable career path?

Sounds like you want to help others, a lot, so, in my opinion, nothing is more respectable than those who help others. (Doctors, paramedics, cops, etc.)

Is it okay to get my 7 year old son a pet cat?

We got him some rabbits two years ago and he killed them. Do you think enough time has passed for him to get another pet? He's requesting a cat. We think it might help with his behavioral issues. He's got a lot of anger issues and throws tantrums and threatens me a lot, we think it might get nickled in the buck if he has an animal companion to take care of to help him learn to be more polite and caring.

What would be a better rod for these fishing conditions?

Seeing as your local I'll first tell you to visit the forum at a href="http://www.fishingsaskatchewan.ca/new/forum/" rel="nofollow"http://www.fishingsaskatchewan.ca/new/fo…/a lots of great info for Boundary. As for your choices, going by whats listed on the website I don't see much difference in the 2 spinning reels, I would suggest for a beginner 8lb test line, other then that goto a physical tackle shop and check out some of the basic equipment. I have never fly fished but always wanted to try.

I'm worried about this?

Your privacy will be handled delicately. You will be permitted to wear your underwear. Even if the injection was to be put in one buttock, they would only have to pull a section away from the area. No worries.

I have an idea,maybe this will work?

Now is not the time to be modest. The doctors and nurses have seen it all but the gowns are open in the back. I can relate to what you are going through especially if you get lucky and have a cute nurse give you that shot. You could request for a male nurse.

Is my marriage worth saving if my husband constantly puts his mum & step-dad before me?

that must be an horrible thing to go through and to answer your question no your marriage isn't worth saving...don't take this the wrong way but you need someone that is going to be there for you and take your side and from what i read it seems like he's stuck up his mother's *** and she has him tied around her little finger. If he loves you he will do the right thing but for now you can't put yourself through that. If he can't understand then im sure that there's someone else out there for you. Good luck.

Rate this guy please?

Are you looking for a number 1-10? What matters is what you think of him not anyone else. If your looking for a long term relationship then that's more then looks. A relationship with a guy who's a 10in looks and a personality of a 2 with a brain of a 3 isn't the total package.

How can i lose 5 pounds per week ?

my BMI is 24.1 and BMR 1246.5... i am 4.11 ft and i weight a lot for my age and height ( 119 pounds )..... i soo need to lose my weight for the party i have after 2 weeks and i dont care if i gain again (well i will make sure i dont ) .. i lose aroun 195 calories or smthing like that evryday by doing aerobics ..but yet i am just not satisfied ..anyone who can help ?? please it really emergency and important for me !

How to introduce my 16 month old to newborn?

I have a 15 month old, and I am due next Thursday with my second. I have been pretty worried about the same thing! Advice I have gotten is to expect temper tantrums. At their age, attention is attention. What is good attention to them is anything that puts your focus on them and gets you to stop paying attention to the baby. Don't scold her if she misbehaves, completely ignore it. On the flip side, when she is playing nicely and behaving, pay attention to her and tell her what a good girl she is. Tell her how much she loves the baby and how much the baby loves her. Babies are suggestible and when you tell her that, they accept it as truth. Buy her a doll, so she can take care of her baby while you take care of yours. Try to involve her in the care of the baby, like throwing away diapers. Also, mine has recently gotten the concept of giving kisses, we say give mommy kisses or give daddy kisses, so we plan to add the baby into that. I also talk to her a lot about the baby in my belly. She likes to touch and pat my belly and I will tell her "mommy has baby Riley in her belly" and she will say "a baby" over and over. Hopefully things go smoothly! If they are a little rocky, don't stress. It will get better. She will barely remember it!

Great boyfriend, but future questionable?

Omg it's crazy but you and I are in the same boat. the farther along me and my bf get along in the relationship, the more I see us being torn apart in the future unfortunately. I'm studying to be a scientist and he doesn't do anything

How mad will you guys be once the Heat?

Finish off and complete their 7peat and LeGod James will win the next 7 Finals MVP's? How will u guys feel? Would u start crying or throw tantrums at the Heat. Hahaha. Enjoy hating the Heat now, but once we hoist those 7 titles u will bow down to the Mighty Heat and LeGod. LeBron James is already the GOAT, once he gets that 7peat he will be the Mega Star GOAT, far and away above anyone else that has ever played the game. Don't say I didn't warn u fools!

What are these... weight-training machine thingies called?

The one where you bend your knees is a decline bench for doing different exercises and the second one I think those are just called parallel bars.

Just curious.............?

Average face. Around a good 6 on the 1-10 scale. Nice eyes, a little OTP makeup. I wouldn't do you, sorry but there are quite a few i would imagine which would. I would guess your straight, and probably late 20s.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

BARREL RACERS!!!!! Easy points!?

I like the light blue and white ones :) but also just brown or brown and tan are nice bc they match what ever. I always see a lot of people using pink and white ones. :) What I would recommended doing with the reins tho is putting some type of clip on them so they are easy to take on and off of what ever bridle. Hope I helped some :)

How can I get back at my my mom without sticking pizza crust uup my butthole?

I shove pizza crust up my butthole when I get mad at my mom to get back at her because she has to take me to an emergency room. But he bills are startin to get a little high. What's another way I can get back at my mom?

Is this abuse? If so what do I do?

My parents repeatedly scream at me and make me feel worthless.I'm a 16 year old girl by the way My mother has temper tantrums and acts like a 5 year old when she gets mad stomping her feet, yelling, and screMing almost to the point where she is in tears. My dad sides with her and backs her up. But they get mad at me alot more them my sister. They compare me to her even though she's younger and make me feel stupid I try talking to them about that and they tell me try harder. But over the past few years it's gotten worse my mom has pinned me down on my bed and yells at me and I'm not strong enough to throw her off. My dad on the other hand yells and points fingers but only in the past few years has he been hitting me. Recently being he hit in the arm after scolding me and I fought back cause I didn't deserve it and then he persisted to use me as a human punching bag to the point where I lost feeling in my left arm for the rest of the night. I only hit him back once. I'm scared but I dont want to go to the cops just yet I want to try and be civil about this. I don't know how to handle this their very good to me and I need guidance as to what to do.

Okay. emergency. my face is really itchy from proactive. i've only used it for 2 days.?

i've tried the green tea moisturizer, but ugh. it only worked for like a few mins. then i woke this morning, it became really itchy and it became red. tell me this is not normal

I know I've asked this a million times but what are you listening to?

Green Day , great taste ! Make sure you listen to more than the American Idiot record though. Dookie is pretty amazing album. Right now I'm listening to " The Con" Tegan and Sara.

5 year old pees on himself on purpose and throws tantrums. I'm so frustrated?

My son is 5 years old. He has been potty trained for almost 2 years. About 3 months ago he wet the bed. I felt horrible for him, told him it would be okay, changed him and sent him back to bed. Well, he has wet the bed about 90% of the time since then but, only at bedtime. Plus he never wets the bed at the sitters, my brothers, his mothers... anywhere but at home. He goes to the restroom before bed. Most times he only urinates a tiny bit in his pants but, it's enough for him to tell me "daddy, I peed my pants". The first month or so I was very compassionate and understanding. The next month I didn't say a word to him when it happened, just changed him and sent him back to bed. Recently I have started making him stand in the corner for a few minutes and then change him. I make him help me clean the mess almost every time. I've tried positive reinforcement, encouragement, silence, punishment... everything I can think of but, he continues to wet the bed. Everything I'm reading online says that very rarely will a child wet himself on purpose but, I'm 99% confident that this is the case. I don't know if he's trying to get attention, if he's trying to test me, if he sees it as an excuse to not go to sleep... I just don't know. Most times it seems like a game to him... he'll have a smile on his face when he tells me he wet himself. I've even went to the extent of threatening to put him back in a diaper at bedtime. He laughs at me Usually, when I threaten something I intend on backing it up but, I just couldn't bring myself to put him back in a diaper. He was crying and I felt like it wasn't the right thing to do. I'm at a loss and hope ya'll have some good advice for me. Thanks for your time, much appreciated.

How to tell a manager you need to leave out of country for family emergency?

I have an interview for a job at Loft outlet on wed and I am leaving out of the country onn fri because my uncle has passed and I need to help get everything out of his house but I am not sure how i should tell the manager that I wont be in town for 3 weeks! like im afraid it that it will jeopardize me receiving the job! -__-

Is my body continuing to show signs of pregnancy?

Last night I posted this "Exactly a week ago my boyfriend ejaculated a large amount of sperm directly into me, it was the last day of my menstrel cycle, and I didn't take emergency contreceptives. So far I have had people tell me I feel oddly warm and my breasts are sore. Furthermore I've been slightly nausious. I know taking a test is the smartest thing but I have to wait till the 20th a month from now! Would my stomach start to feel hard yet? If I'm already having breast tenderness what is expected to happen next?" The nasua I don't think is an indicator but do to my eating habits. Any how I posted in here cuz I have had breast tenderness before like a wk before my period, but my period isn't due till the 15th and my breast hurt so bad last night if I pressed them against somthing, when I moved they would feel sore. I tried to sleep it off but when I woke up I went to cuddle my boyfriend his chest brushed my nipple and it felt sore.... PREGNANT or stressed out?there are no lumps what else can cause breast pain?

Book report help Emergency?

I am reading this book called 1984 I have to write a 5 page report now I have to compare the 1989 peaceful uprise in Tiananmen Square, China event to the book. Someone please do a explanation about the events in the book I already got the china uprise info covered.

How to get my wife out of an abusive friendship?

you could get ur wife another phone n he wont know she has another phone so she wont pick up if he calls or maybe ur wife should get another job at a different place

How to minimize cell phone bill?

I really only need a cell phone so people can get a hold of me if they have an emergency. Therefore the basic phone function as well as long distance within the U.S. is all I need. Yahoo community, please give me some advise on which cell phone company to buy service from and how to trim down the monthly bill to a minimum. Thanks.

I cannot get my toddler to bed anymore, does anyone else have problems with this around 2 years old?

My daughter is approaching two years old and for the last month, she does not want to go to bed at night. Sometimes I even have the same issues with nap time. I know she is tired because she yawns, rubs her eyes, throws temper tantrums, etc. I have tried everything. From baths, rocking her in the glider, dim lights, reading bed time stories, rubbing her back, humming, pacing her bed room. I don't try these all in the same nights but I have tried each one a few nights in a row to see if something would help. I block out the outside lights, run a fan on low, and she has a night light. I have to run the fan because we live in a very small house and the walls are like paper so you can hear everything. My husband and I stay quiet. I am just at loss. She fights sleep every night and even gets up at 3 am to play. It takes me over an hour to get her sleep every night and most nights I leave her in her crib to fall asleep after a half hour of trying to get her to calm down.. She talks, bounces, kicks the sides, and plays in her crib all the time. I have even tried early bedtime around 8:00 and later up until 10:15. I just don't know what will make this kid sleep without a show down every night. She doesn't cry or carry on hardly, she just will not go to sleep. I have tried changing her naps and even tried days without a nap but to no avail my child will not cooperate. I really hope this just a phase. She was a great sleeper until a month or two ago. This wouldn't be such a problem but I am in school and take online classes, night time is my school time. I cannot do my work when she is up during the day for obvious reasons with a toddler running around. Any advice experienced mamas?

My sister is Anorexic but my parents won't believe me?! HELP?!?

OK, this is going to be long... So my sister was acting really odd for the past few months right after our trip to Disney World. She reduced her food amount drastically and even cut out the food she can't live without: Potato Chips. She started going to her room as early as six o' clock and go to sleep as early as seven. So, that means she hasn't been eating dinner. Before, she would look in the mirror every morning and suck her belly in. She did have sort of a belly before, but she wasn't overweight. Now, she has lost a lot of weight. She skips breakfast (nothing new), but then she will remove stuff from her lunch kit which my mum packed, even when my mum put less so my sister would finish it. She didn't. Then she would come home from school and say she's not hungry and go upstairs to read or, until recently, play on her NEW iPod Touch. She started drinking lots of water (she never did before) and diet fizzy drinks. She complains of being cold at warm days. She once took a potato chip and put it in tissue paper and said "Eww! Look how GREASY it is!!". Whenever we make things at our cooking classes, she'll tell the kids she can't wait to eat them, then she'll not touch them at home. I am writing this right after one of her tantrums. She went to her room right after coming from her friends house. I went upstairs and asked if she was going to eat dinner with us. She said she already ate at her friends house. I asked what. She said two slices of pizza. So I said I would ask my brother who was also there, then she admitted she didn't eat anything. She promised she would eat when my mum came home. She didn't eat. I made her some lasagna (she used to LOVE it) and she promised she would go to her room and eat it when it was finished cooking. She went to sleep. My mum made her come downstairs (she didn't want to waste the food) and my sister was screaming and crying and ended up not eating. By the way, I had Anorexia before, so I know the symptoms. The thing that bothers me to the point of complete utter belief is that my parents don't believe me! They say this is normal behavior, or she's growing up, or she's trying to annoy me to get attention, Blah blah blah. I need advice on how to convince my parents she has a problem and to get her into therapy

Gay Guys: Who Would You Rather Date (Celebrities edition)?

Idk sorry I don't really like celebrities...ANd I'm much too picky, I can't tell how tall they are from a picture, or whatever...

My BBM isn't working.. help!?

Okay, so i have a blackberry curve with metro PCS ( i live in michigan ) and i'm in Canada right now and my BBM isn't working, help? EMERGENCY, I WILL DIE.

IPhone Problems With Restoring.?

okay i accidently restored my iPhone 2G. i just thought okay ill start over from scratch but it went to the emergency call lock screen. ive tried restarting it, restarting my computer, even un-installing itunes nd re-installing it but still nothing. i went to the at&t store and they told me to hold the circle button while i plug in the usb to put the phone into recovery mode and it says it restores it but once it finishes loading everything it immediately goes back to the emergency call lock screen, the one with the globe. Just wondering if you guys would know what to do because im really frustrated with this problem.

How do we get him to stop crying?

Our 5 Yr old crys about everything!!!!! If I ask him to come to dinner he crys cause he wants to play with something. He crys because I did not use the bread he has in his hand after I've already made his sandwich. He crys when I ask him to share. He crys when we ask him not to cry! We don't know what to do! He just gets sad alot!!!! All the time! He is only really happy when he is playing on the computer, on his ds or outside playing. And we have 3 kids so I can't take away the computer and ds cause our other two wil play and he will just cry. It's like he does not understand why... Like you actually feel bad for him because it's not like a temper tantrum; he just gets really sad, confused and crys! Anyway I want to stop this behavior. Right now we just put him in timeout wich makes him stop crying almost immediately but he then has to sit it out (5min/ age) he does Not like time out so everytime he is about to cry we say you will go to timeout and usually he will stop, but I don't want him to even start to cry!! Any advice??

I don't *WANT* to adopt my step-kid..can I say this without seeming to reject him?

I don't think I would just come out and say I don't "want", I think I would just say something like, "it may be beneficial if I not adopt him because" and then explain why. If he is 12, he may want to keep his last name, and he may very well not like you in a year or 2. In case you haven't had teenagers yet, they hate parents. They think parents is the dumbest thing since "Dumbo". So you have reasons not to adopt him, very legitimate reasons at that. I totally understand since I have 3 step kids of my own.

Emergency pet question!?

i was gone from 4 until 10 and when came home i found one of our ant baits chewed up and i have 2 dogs. the trap is a raid ant bait. is this going to harm them. it says for ingredients avermectin 0.01% and other ingredients 99.99%

After you are involved with the police do they keep their eye on you?

Unless you live in a city with a population of 50, with only 3 people committing crimes, we simply don't have the time to babysit one person. Sorry to disappoint you.

Will a prepaid phone be able to call 911 even if it has no remaining balance and the service has expired?

I'm sending my grandma a Verizon prepaid cellphone for emergency use. It has $10 airtime included and I'm also sending $15 refill card. These amounts will expire if not used, and I'm not sure she would buy more refill cards or keep it active. I've heard that any cellphone will still call 911 even if it has no balance and is not active. Is this true? Could my grandma call 911 in an emergency even if she does not keep up with the service?

Saturday, July 16, 2011

9 year olds still throwing tantrums--how do you deal with it?

when you said she has tantrums about 3 times a day I say she is spoiled and being popular at school makes her even worse. When she try's to beat you and your sister you must take control by gabbing her and forcing her down on something soft like a bed and say as calm as you can that you will not tolerate this and be as sweet as possible to her. If she try's kicking you and all after you do this then just walk away with your other sister and stay away from the one with the tantrum. This way she will calm down eventually. And if she gets mad about the food taking to long then finish that up and give it to her polity after she calms down. Eventually she will learn so don't be to worried.

Whats A Good Scene/Emo Nickname For Taylah?

My name is Taylah i need a nickname im emo/scene i need a new nickname nothing like taylah terror or taylah tantrum something diffrent im not a deep depressed emo im more like the hopeless romantic emo/scene so nothing like heaps depressing or anything kay thnx xx

Lil siblings trouble..?

I cant take it any more. My 6yr old twin lil bros r driving me nuts! One kept me up all night the other is a MEGA brat. If he doesnt get what he wants he throws everything on the floor n goes to my dad n tells him i did it. They snitch me out. They throw sheet at me n kick me! They go to the neighbors house n NEVER come back on time. If they dont get what they want they throw a tantrum hit u throw stuff at you. They act like angels when my parents are home. When i have to babysit them when my parents aren't home they go DEVIL! They dont even listen to me. I tried being nice im done with it. It doesnt work. How do i make them listen to me n to make them stop being brats

How to release emergency break?

I have a 97 cadillac el dorado and my emergency break will not release, my battery is dead and im unable to move my car to get a jump...pleassssse help!

What do you think about my makeover? before and after pics included?

I think mix the two a bit. Dye your hair back, it looked better when it wasn't black and if you wanted to wear that shirt I say wear a white cardigan and black skirt with it or a different coloured cardigan. Black is good but too much black certainly isn't!

How to stop jealousy between dogs (fighting)?

Give them a Nerf football soaked in bacon grease. They'll fight over it, and the winner chokes to death. Problem solved.

Is my 2 year olds behaviour normal, or is there more to it?

Your son should be evaluated by a doctor. Many of the behaviors you've described are unusual, particularly the head-banging which is highly unusual.

Very fruatrated.. what do I do?

First she's a toddler, it's normal. Second, you must discipline her, you are her mother, it is your job. Put her in time out for 2 mins. Yes they run, they have just learned how to do it. If she throws a fit then it's time out, if you do not start disciplining her it will only get worse. And she throws those fits becuase it gets her what she wants, be strong and do not give in to it.

Would they admit you into hospital if you are having a mixed episode?

I saw my care co-ordinator today and she was right on the verge of calling an emergency dr. cause she thought i was having a mixed episode, instead i convinced that i would be fine over ngiht and have to go back and see my regular dr tomorrow at 9 - Im really worried that they are going to admit me to hospital . . . Is this likely with mixed episodes or will he just put me on a mood stabaliser and let me be? :S (Diagnosed shcisoaffective)

12 year old out late a t night with teenagers...opinions?

I think that the 12 yr old should of been allowed to stay originally, as it's horrible to be left out, but after the tantrum no.

Am i under spoiled haha???????????????//?

ok so I have parents who make at least $1,300 a week working hard so I really don't get much or try to get much for it but lately I've been wanting to learn about how to manage money on my own. I now have about $60 from what they've gaven me in the last 3 months and I save change. The thing is my mother has a saving account for my car which she puts at least $20 a week. If I ask my dad for money he'll give me $20 every 2 or 3 weeks. i barely get any clothes because my bro's whiney and they have to get him toys and have to spend money on my play-station 2 which I bought with my b-day money and he now thinks it's his and doesn't share. He will throw tantrums if I use it. I never really get clothes and when I do it has to be on sale.

Please help: So what else can I do now? 8 months pregnant & terrified & tired in VA. Help!? ?

My boyfriend/baby's father walked out on me about a month ago. My lease runs out at my apartment June 30th, begged to renew it but I got no sympathy from my landlord. I am now 8 months pregnant, and completely homeless. Thank God I still have my job but its not paying enough to pull me out of poverty. No one else will hire me due to obviously looking so pregnant, no matter how much I plead or beg. I asked my obgyn for help & they attempted to involuntarily hospitalize me.My obgyn is making me take fmla leave july 30th due to a very serious case of anemia, and stressful pregnancy. So I will have no income at all come aug. I have gotten everything available to me from social services: medicaid, stamps, waiting on wic which I probably wont recieve b/c the come to your home in order to see if your fit. There is no emergency housing in my area, and People Helping People has closed. There is no section 8 for 2 years. The housing authority is also unable to help at the moment. I have tried the Mercy House, who says they can only house me when my baby comes, and there is no more money to help until mid August. The salvation army has all rooms filled, and First Step a womens shelter says I need to be a victim of domestic abuse. Im sleeping in my car, and living off of food not good for an already sick baby. I only have my mother as family & she lives about an hour away, and is struggling to get by on her own due to helping me as best she can. I am so tired, very sick, at my wits end and am very scared. I am 25 & have never been homeless before. I have always been responsible & financially independant & capable until now. I have already lost my home, and soon my job and my car. I fear losing my child too. What else can I do for myself? Any help what so ever will be considered a blessing.

Which one would you choose?

The second one looks like a prostitute because of the way she's dressed, if she dressed modestly she would look way more beautiful.(Her clothes are bad and the excessive make-up, if she stops those, she'll be prettier). The first one looks prettier out of the two pictures:)

Do you like/dislike Chris Brown's new image?

If you're a fan, answer this question. If you're not, don't. I personally dislike his new image. He's trying to be a bad boy. He's always cussing on twitter and throwing tantrums when he doesn't get his way. I miss the old Chris Brown, his music and his image. :( MEH! Whatever, just needed to "vent".

My 15 month old has tantrums?

At the moment he is testing his limits and boundaries. What you do now can have a huge impact on what kind of child he will turn out to be. I am personally, against using physical discipline, but that is each parents choice. I think you are on the right track. My nephew went through a similar stage, and is now a charming, mild mannered boy. There are heaps of ideas and guides out there, it's just a matter of finding one that works for you and your family.

Help with pigeon please!! emergency?

I found a baby pigeon, it flaps its wings and tries to fly so it must be around 20 days old. But it wont eat anything! Its scared of me and tries to run. I gave it bird food + whatever birds eat and it wont even open its mouth! The stupid thing wont even peck at anything! How can I get it to eat something? It has near full feathers (still has that yellow fur on its neck area).

Why are all the Liberal Tax Parasites in Greece throwing a temper tantrum?

Rich people don't like supporting their nation, community, neighbor.. I think we all get that now. Maybe we should stop supporting rich people by refusing to fight in their wars, policing their neighborhoods, treating their infirmaries, or building all their toys.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH MY MOTHER?

Im sorry to say this but maybe your dad left her because of her tamper sp try avoiding her for a couple of days or go for sleep overs to your friends house on weekends other wise ur family matters will get worsened

Does anyone know of any pet record keeping/journaling software or printable templates?

I am looking for something to use to keep track of my birds and other pets basic info, vet records, emergency contacts AND training progress, pictures, etc. Does anyone know of a complete system? Or, have recommendations on how to keep track of it all? Thanks!

Revenge ideas, anyone?

hide the remote while your at work or take it with you and just mysteriously find it when you get home like twice a week or something simple like that.

What are ways to tame a back-sassing 6 year old?

I highly suggest Lisa Welchel's Creative Correction.. You don't seem like you believe in spankings, so just ignore the parts you don't agree with. There are some really great ideas in there.

If you were confronted with an emergency or disaster who would you want there...?

the able-bodied Atheist or the Christian mumbling passages about "divine retribution". Sheeee-it...

Not attaching to my adopted baby?

Just give those kids sometime. Of course, they're still adjusting to the new environment, new people taking care of them. They're still little, so as their minds. Just make them feel loved then eventually you'll earn their trust. :)

My 1.5 yr. old Boston Terrier got an emergency blood transfusion 3 nights ago. She was doing good about eating?

and taking her medicine up until today. She doesn't want to eat the Cesar dog food that I used to mix her vitamins with. When we she nearly asleep, I squirted the vitamins down her throat cause I figured she wouldn't put up a fight then. She swallowed them fine. She has been shaking today, more like a shiver and I'm pretty worried. This morning the vet said she is going to be fine, but my motherly instinct is telling me that something just isn't right. We have another appointment for a week but I'm wondering if I should be worried? The high was 95 today, so she shouldn't be cold??

What is the response to a 999 call?

They ask which department you want (police, ambulance or fire), then the conversation is obviously dependant upon the situation so nobody can give you a scrip. It's about establishing quickly and clearly what the problem is (if any).

Why did my truck just stop running the switch turns but nothing?

Whooo one prob at a time, lights don't mater if it dont'run. It "cranks"but will not start..You are looking at a fuel or spark issue. It has enough fuel^, was it raining or wet, (water intrusion in ignition-spark- system). ok, fuel pump or distributor prob. Put your ear to the back of car at the fuel filler cap, have some one turn the key on (all the way to start, but don't start) you should hear the fuel pump Humm, Whine for 2 seconds, if not pump or relay.Under the hood is a single wire, all by itself, just there hanging out it has a lill connector on it - like it's supposed to be plugged in to something. Well, with key on take a piece of wire and stick it from battery poss to the end of wire, if pump runs, replace fuel pump relay, if not running, Have fuel pump replaced. Ok, spark- pull one (don't matter) plug wire from the spark plug, have some one crank car, if you can't hear and or see the spark / ticking Have the ignition system checked out. NOW you can do these checks.. you need a piece of wire (=12in long), someone to crank the car(even this can be done by one person, just LISTEN close as you turn key on or try to crank). A bit long but very easy to figure out WHAT. Now repairing (other than relay) needs a 'shop'. Good Luck,

1.5 year old daughter... should i be concerned?

My almost 18 month old is definitely showing signs of terrible twos. The only thing that worries me is she is hitting herself and me when throwing tantrums. She also throws her head forward and back to hit things such as the couch or her crib railing... is this normal? She seems to take her anger out on herself?! She's my first so im not sure if this is normal.

We have a rather crabby health care aide who is a constant trouble maker.my dad and i have a social worker?

come in and checks on us,this woman is more for my dad than me,since she looks after him because hes alzhiemerd.now,hes lso volent and has on occasions attacked me and hurt me at one time.so i was tellng this friend of mine who has ties to nursing homes and the like so shes very knowledgeable on this,what she did was to look up from where i live the dss department and got me some help,the other day a social worker fro this dss department came to talk with me,our aide was here when she came.she saw red ,and i caught holy hell now the aide refuses to talk with me.shes the type that will tell everyone what a jerk i am.im not a child im 69 yrs old and entitled to pick my own social worker.this aide is a hell raiser,she and my brother are like twins she tells him everything,another black eye for me.i hate her guts.i have no one tto talk to about family troubles so i tell my friend.shed like to help me get out of my house because of my dads abusive temper tantrums.hes attacked me twice.was i right in asking this friend for help?

Friday, July 15, 2011

Can a company fire you with no written/verbal warning?

I was fired today from Wild Waves Theme park. They say in the handbook that they have to give you warnings at certain points but they did not give me any work. Then I went today and I went to clock in and they told me to sit down and they fired me. Also one of those days my best friend/cousins ex gf miscarried so I went down to see her. So that should of not been counted as points because its a family emergency.